{"id":464035,"date":"2025-12-16T14:19:52","date_gmt":"2025-12-16T19:19:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/growcurriculum.org\/go\/?p=464035"},"modified":"2026-02-09T08:31:04","modified_gmt":"2026-02-09T13:31:04","slug":"how-to-help-kids-know-use-their-gifts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/growcurriculum.org\/go\/how-to-help-kids-know-use-their-gifts\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Help Kids Know &#038; Use Their Gifts"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There are so many great reasons why many of us stepped into kids ministry. Maybe it was a love for animal crackers, a desire for more glitter-based art work, or the absolute thrill of wearing a costume at nine o&#8217;clock in the morning on a Sunday. These are all valid reasons, but underneath all of the glamour, we were all motivated by the possibility of helping kids grow in their faith.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the heart of what we do. We want to see kids know Jesus, follow Jesus, and build a faith that lasts. But as you\u2019ve probably learned, helping kids grow can be a little more complicated than it sounds.<\/p>\n<p>How do you measure spiritual growth?<\/p>\n<p>What \u201ccounts\u201d as progress?<\/p>\n<p>Which metrics actually matter \u2014 and which ones just make us feel busy?<\/p>\n<p>For many of us, when we think about spiritual habits we go straight to the classics\u2013reading the Bible, praying, going to church. And yes, those things are very important. But what if we could zoom out and think about discipleship in a more holistic way?<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why our <a href=\"Grow Discipleship Strategy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-gc-link=\"Grow Discipleship Strategy\">discipleship strategy<\/a> focuses on four spiritual habits\u2013<strong>Spending Time with God<\/strong>, <strong>Spending Time with Others<\/strong>, <strong>Using Your Gifts<\/strong>, and <strong>Sharing Your Story<\/strong>. We believe these habits sit at the center of spiritual growth, and they become the lens through which you can see everything you do each year\u2014your teaching, your events, your strategy with parents, and even how you empower your volunteers.<\/p>\n<p>We want to help kids build these four habits\u2014and anytime we see a kid practicing even one of them, we can celebrate it as a sign of real spiritual growth. So in this blog, let&#8217;s look at just one of these habits\u2013<\/p>\n<h4><strong><em>USING YOUR GIFTS<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Every kid in your ministry needs to know that God made them unique, on purpose, and equipped with specific gifts, talents, passions, and resources. And when they begin using those gifts to love God, love others, and make a difference, something shifts. Their confidence grows. Their empathy grows. Their faith grows.<\/p>\n<p>So how do we help kids learn to <strong>Use Their Gifts<\/strong>? Here are a few practical ways to start\u2013<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li data-gc-list-depth=\"1\" data-gc-list-style=\"bullet\"><strong>MAKE OPPORTUNITIES TO SERVE. <\/strong>Telling kids to serve is a good start\u2014but giving them a chance to actually do it is even better. Build in real roles where kids can help\u2013cleaning up supplies, passing out materials, leading discussions in their small groups, or assisting with worship. And don\u2019t limit these opportunities to just your weekly program. Challenge kids to serve at home, at school, or in their community\u2014like helping with chores, caring for a sibling, or picking up trash in a nearby park. Kids grow when they\u2019re invited to <em>practice<\/em> what they&#8217;ve been taught.<\/li>\n<li data-gc-list-depth=\"1\" data-gc-list-style=\"bullet\"><strong>CALL OUT WHAT YOU SEE.<\/strong> Kids don\u2019t always notice their own gifts. That\u2019s where you come in. Catch them doing something amazing\u2014showing kindness, stepping up to help, solving a problem creatively\u2014and name it. A simple, \u201cYou\u2019re really good at that\u201d can stick with a kid for years. Your words help connect their everyday actions to God\u2019s design.<\/li>\n<li data-gc-list-depth=\"1\" data-gc-list-style=\"bullet\"><strong>TELL STORIES ABOUT PEOPLE USING THEIR GIFTS.<\/strong> Kids remember stories. Use Scripture, real-life examples, or stories from your own ministry to highlight people who used what God gave them to make a difference. When kids see that gifts don\u2019t have to be flashy to matter, and that God uses all kinds of people in all kinds of ways, it can help them imagine what <em>they<\/em> can do too.<\/li>\n<li data-gc-list-depth=\"1\" data-gc-list-style=\"bullet\"><strong>CELEBRATE EVERY STEP.<\/strong> Growth isn\u2019t just measured in milestones\u2014it\u2019s measured in moments. Celebrate when a kid uses their gifts, even in small ways. Give them a shoutout in their group, send a quick note home, or tell their parent what you noticed. When kids know that using their gifts brings joy and encouragement, they\u2019ll want to keep doing it.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And if you&#8217;re looking for new ways to help your kids use their gifts, we&#8217;ve got a few ideas for what that could look like&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-464068 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/growcurriculum.org\/go\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/TitleSlide_H_CommunityCareKits_Discipleship_V9_GrowKids-min-300x159.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"159\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You can also help kids identify needs around them and discover how they can make a difference \u2014 just like in the <a href=\"https:\/\/growcurriculum.org\/preschool-elementary\/discipleship\/community-care-kits-2\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-gc-link=\"https:\/\/growcurriculum.org\/preschool-elementary\/discipleship\/community-care-kits-2\">Community Care Kits<\/a> resource from Grow Curriculum. As a whole group or in smaller teams, invite kids to talk about the needs they see in their community and brainstorm ways to respond, like assembling hygiene kits or filling backpacks with school supplies. Then let small group leaders guide conversations that help kids understand the world around them and imagine the many ways their gifts can make an impact.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s so much you can do to help kids learn to use their gifts. And if you need more ideas, we\u2019d love to support you. When you use <a href=\"growcurriculum.org\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-gc-link=\"growcurriculum.org\">Grow Kids Curriculum<\/a>, you get everything you need to help kids build the habit of Using Your Gifts\u2014weekly teaching materials, complete event guides, discipleship activities, small group resources, and tools to help parents invest at home. We\u2019re here to help you disciple kids and help them grow in their faith.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are so many great reasons why many of us stepped into kids ministry. Maybe it was a love for animal crackers, a desire for more glitter-based art work, or the absolute thrill of wearing a costume at nine o&#8217;clock in the morning on a Sunday. These are all valid reasons, but underneath all of [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":371,"featured_media":464064,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[234,242,83],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-464035","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-discipleship","8":"category-discipleship-youth-ministry","9":"category-kids-ministry-blog"},"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v25.0 (Yoast SEO v27.5) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-premium-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>How to Help Kids Know &amp; Use Their Gifts | Grow Youth &amp; Kids Ministry Curriculum<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Learn practical ways to help kids discover and use their gifts through service, encouragement, and discipleship in your youth ministry.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/growcurriculum.org\/go\/how-to-help-kids-know-use-their-gifts\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"How to Help Kids Know &amp; Use Their Gifts\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"There are so many great reasons why many of us stepped into kids ministry. 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