{"id":464037,"date":"2025-12-16T14:22:00","date_gmt":"2025-12-16T19:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/growcurriculum.org\/go\/?p=464037"},"modified":"2026-02-09T08:30:15","modified_gmt":"2026-02-09T13:30:15","slug":"how-to-help-teenagers-know-use-their-gifts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/growcurriculum.org\/go\/how-to-help-teenagers-know-use-their-gifts\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Help Teenagers Know &#038; Use Their Gifts"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There are a lot of reasons why many of us stepped into youth ministry. Maybe it was the promise of regular pizza parties, the thrill of reliving our former dodgeball stardom, or the profound joy of seeing a teenager actually laugh at one of your jokes. These are all valid reasons\u2014but underneath all the fun, we were really motivated by the possibility of helping teenagers grow in their faith.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the heart of what we do. We want to see students know Jesus, follow Jesus, and build a faith that lasts. But as you already know, helping students grow is a whole lot more complicated than simply wishing it into existence.<\/p>\n<p>How do you measure spiritual growth?<\/p>\n<p>What \u201ccounts\u201d as progress?<\/p>\n<p>Which metrics actually matter\u2014and which ones just keep us busy?<\/p>\n<p>For many of us, when we think about spiritual habits, our minds go straight to the classics\u2014reading the Bible, praying, going to church. And yes, those are incredibly important. But what if we could zoom out and think about discipleship in a more holistic way?<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why our <a href=\"Grow Discipleship Strategy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-gc-link=\"Grow Discipleship Strategy\">discipleship strategy<\/a> focuses on four spiritual habits\u2014<strong>Spending Time with God, Spending Time with Others, Using Your Gifts, <\/strong>and<strong> Sharing Your Story<\/strong>. We believe these habits sit at the center of spiritual growth, and they shape how you plan your year\u2014your teaching calendar, your events, your parent strategy, and even how you equip your volunteers.<\/p>\n<p>We want to help teenagers build these four habits\u2014and anytime we see a student practicing even one of them, we can celebrate it as a sign of real spiritual growth. So in this blog, let\u2019s zoom in on just one of these habits\u2013<\/p>\n<h4><strong><em>USING YOUR GIFTS<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Every student in your ministry needs to know that God made them unique, on purpose, and equipped them with specific gifts, talents, passions, and resources. And when they begin using those gifts to love God, love others, and influence the world around them, something changes. Their identity grows clearer. Their confidence deepens. Their faith expands.<\/p>\n<p>So how do we help teenagers learn to Use Their Gifts? Here are a few practical ways to start\u2013<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li data-gc-list-depth=\"1\" data-gc-list-style=\"bullet\"><strong>MAKE OPPORTUNITIES TO SERVE. <\/strong>Telling a student they should serve is a good start\u2014but giving them real opportunities to do it is even better. Look for meaningful roles where they can contribute\u2013running tech, helping lead worship, welcoming new students, preparing activities, sharing announcements, or mentoring younger students. And don\u2019t limit service to inside the church. Create serve days, partner with local organizations, or plan service projects in your community. Missions trips can also open students\u2019 eyes to how their gifts can make a difference\u2014locally or globally.<\/li>\n<li data-gc-list-depth=\"1\" data-gc-list-style=\"bullet\"><strong>CALL OUT WHAT YOU SEE.<\/strong> Students don\u2019t always see the good in themselves\u2014self-doubt is loud, and insecurity is real. So when you see something good, call it out. Name the leadership you see during group time, the creativity in their ideas, the courage they show, or the compassion they offer a friend. A simple, \u201cYou\u2019re really good at that,\u201d can stick with a teenager for years and help them see themselves the way God does.<\/li>\n<li data-gc-list-depth=\"1\" data-gc-list-style=\"bullet\"><strong>TELL STORIES ABOUT PEOPLE USING THEIR GIFTS. <\/strong>Teenagers are constantly looking for examples worth following. Share stories from Scripture, from your church, from history, or from your own life that highlight people who used their gifts to serve God and serve others. When students see ordinary people making a difference with ordinary gifts, it helps them imagine how God might use them too.<\/li>\n<li data-gc-list-depth=\"1\" data-gc-list-style=\"bullet\"><strong>CELEBRATE EVERY STEP.<\/strong> Teenagers thrive on authentic encouragement. When they take initiative, pray for someone, lead behind the scenes, serve without being asked, or simply show up consistently\u2014celebrate it. Give them a shoutout, write a quick message, or pull them aside to tell them what you noticed. Small affirmations often grow into lifelong confidence.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And if you&#8217;re looking for new ways to help your students use their gifts, here\u2019s one idea to get you started\u2026<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-464070 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/growcurriculum.org\/go\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/TitleSlide_H_AfterYouServiceProject_Discipleship_V9_GrowStudents-min-300x169.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A good meal brings people together \u2014 but for many people, food isn\u2019t simple. Food insecurity impacts more than one out of three people worldwide, and for many students, conversations around food can feel stressful, shame-filled, or overwhelming. In <a href=\"link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-gc-link=\"link\"><strong>The After You Service Project<\/strong><\/a>, you\u2019ll help teenagers understand more about food insecurity, learn why asking for help matters, and create a practical plan to support people in their own community.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s so much you can do to help students use their gifts. And if you\u2019re feeling overwhelmed, we\u2019d love to help. When you use <a href=\"growcurriculum.org\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-gc-link=\"growcurriculum.org\">Grow Students Curriculum<\/a>, you get everything you need to help teenagers build the habit of Using Your Gifts \u2014 weekly teaching materials, complete event guides, discipleship activities, small group conversation guides, and tools that help parents invest in their teenagers at home. We\u2019re here to help you disciple students and help them grow in their faith.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are a lot of reasons why many of us stepped into youth ministry. Maybe it was the promise of regular pizza parties, the thrill of reliving our former dodgeball stardom, or the profound joy of seeing a teenager actually laugh at one of your jokes. 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