{"id":464555,"date":"2026-06-03T11:09:58","date_gmt":"2026-06-03T15:09:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/growcurriculum.org\/go\/?p=464555"},"modified":"2026-06-03T11:09:58","modified_gmt":"2026-06-03T15:09:58","slug":"lead-your-team-through-change-without-losing-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/growcurriculum.org\/go\/lead-your-team-through-change-without-losing-people\/","title":{"rendered":"Lead Your Team Through Change Without Losing People"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What\u2019s the last change initiative you led that actually stuck?<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Not the one that just launched.<\/li>\n<li>Not the one you just announced.<\/li>\n<li>Not the one you barely survived.<\/li>\n<li>The one that <em>stuck<\/em>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Here\u2019s the uncomfortable truth \u2013 most change efforts fail. It&#8217;s often not because the idea can&#8217;t succeed, but because the process is flawed.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll be hosting a live workshop on Zoom this month about this topic! If you want to join us to learn, discuss, and grow together, then <a href=\"https:\/\/stuffyoucanuse.org\/leadershiplabs\">sign up here<\/a> for $9.97!<\/p>\n<p>Harvard Business Review affirms this reality that nearly 70% of change initiatives fail. And the reasons are remarkably consistent:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Leaders move too fast<\/li>\n<li>People don\u2019t understand the purpose<\/li>\n<li>The past isn\u2019t honored<\/li>\n<li>There\u2019s no plan to stabilize the new normal<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>In other words, change fails when leaders treat it as a project rather than a transition.<\/p>\n<p>Projects are operational.<\/p>\n<p>Transitions are psychological.<\/p>\n<p>And if you want change that lasts, you have to consider the psychology around it.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>Leading Change Is About Transition <\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Kurt Lewin\u2019s classic three-stage model remains one of the most durable frameworks in organizational change.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Unfreeze \u2192 Change \u2192 Refreeze <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s simple.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s human-centered.<\/p>\n<p>And it forces leaders to slow down when they most want to speed up.<\/p>\n<p>Leading change is not about pushing things forward. Instead, it\u2019s about guiding people through a transition.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s walk through these three stages.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>Stage 1 \u2014 Unfreeze: Help People Release the Old Way <\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>This is the stage leaders skip most often because it feels slow.<\/p>\n<p>But Lewin\u2019s core insight is this \u2013 <strong>You cannot move people into a new future until you help them let go of the old one. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Letting go is emotional.<\/p>\n<p>Research from William Bridges, who studied transitions extensively, shows that people don\u2019t resist change \u2014 they resist loss.<\/p>\n<p>We all fear the loss of&#8230;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Competence<\/li>\n<li>Control<\/li>\n<li>Status<\/li>\n<li>Identity<\/li>\n<li>Familiar rhythms<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>When leaders rush past unfreezing, they interpret hesitation as resistance. But often what feels like hesitation is actually grief.<\/p>\n<p>Unfreezing requires four things.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Honor what worked in the past<\/li>\n<li>Clearly name why change is necessary<\/li>\n<li>Create psychological safety for questions<\/li>\n<li>Surface unspoken concerns<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h4><strong>Stage 2 \u2014 Change: Introduce, Model, and Support the New Way<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>This is the stage leaders are most excited about. And, it\u2019s also the stage where anxiety can spike for everyone else.<\/p>\n<p>Lewin was clear \u2013 the leader\u2019s role in this phase is to guide, not push.<\/p>\n<p>Change succeeds when leaders can&#8230;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Model the new behaviors first<\/li>\n<li>Provide clear, step-by-step directions<\/li>\n<li>Remove structural barriers<\/li>\n<li>Repeat the vision relentlessly<\/li>\n<li>Celebrate early wins<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>John Kotter\u2019s research on transformation shows that change accelerates when teams experience early wins.<\/p>\n<p>Small wins build belief.<\/p>\n<p>Belief builds momentum.<\/p>\n<p>People will struggle to commit to what they don\u2019t see working.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>Stage 3 \u2014 Refreeze: Stabilize the New Normal <\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>This is the most unintentionally overlooked stage \u2014 and the reason so many initiatives quietly die, even if they get off to a good start.<\/p>\n<p>Without refreezing, people revert to old habits because those habits are automatic.<\/p>\n<p>Neuroscience research shows that habits are energy-efficient pathways. The brain defaults to what is familiar unless new behaviors are consistently reinforced.<\/p>\n<p>Refreezing means:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Clarifying new expectations<\/li>\n<li>Adjusting systems and processes<\/li>\n<li>Recognizing and rewarding new behaviors<\/li>\n<li>Aligning policies with the change<\/li>\n<li>Embedding language into culture<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Lewin\u2019s insight is this \u2013 change isn\u2019t real until it becomes routine.<\/p>\n<p>Organizational psychology research consistently shows that behavior becomes permanent when&#8230;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Leaders consistently embody the change<\/li>\n<li>Systems reward the new behavior<\/li>\n<li>Old habits become harder than new ones<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If the compensation plan, meeting rhythms, or performance metrics still reward the old way, people will drift back \u2014 every time.<\/p>\n<p>Refreezing is alignment work.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>Go Deeper in Leadership Labs! <\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Change doesn\u2019t stick because you declare it. It sticks because you design a change process that keeps the psychology of change in mind.<\/p>\n<p>\ud83d\udc49<strong> Sign up for our next Leadership Labs live workshop <a href=\"https:\/\/stuffyoucanuse.org\/leadershiplabs\">here<\/a>!<\/strong> These workshops are designed to help you <strong>learn, experiment, and grow your leadership skills<\/strong>. With Leadership Labs, you&#8217;ll get&#8230;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Live 60-minute Leadership Labs with me (Yulee!) and some special guests<\/li>\n<li>Live group discussion<\/li>\n<li>Note sheets for each session<\/li>\n<li>A practical leadership &#8220;experiment&#8221; to help you apply what you&#8217;ve learned in your ministry<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And it&#8217;s only $9.97 for each workshop! Sound like something you could use? Then sign up <a href=\"https:\/\/stuffyoucanuse.org\/leadershiplabs\">here<\/a> and let&#8217;s grow our leadership skills together!<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"0\" data-end=\"46\"><strong data-start=\"0\" data-end=\"18\">Yulee Lee, PhD<\/strong><br data-start=\"18\" data-end=\"21\" \/>Chief Operating Officer<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"48\" data-end=\"123\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">\u2709\ufe0f <a class=\"decorated-link cursor-pointer\" rel=\"noopener\" data-start=\"51\" data-end=\"75\">yulee@stuffyoucanuse.org<\/a><br data-start=\"75\" data-end=\"78\" data-is-only-node=\"\" \/>\ud83c\udf10 <a href=\"http:\/\/growcurriculum.org\">growcurriculum.org<\/a><br data-start=\"99\" data-end=\"102\" \/>\ud83c\udf10 <a href=\"http:\/\/stuffyoucanuse.org\">stuffyoucanuse.org<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What\u2019s the last change initiative you led that actually stuck? Not the one that just launched. Not the one you just announced. Not the one you barely survived. The one that stuck. Here\u2019s the uncomfortable truth \u2013 most change efforts fail. It&#8217;s often not because the idea can&#8217;t succeed, but because the process is flawed. 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